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Tu Lam is the epitome of many things—a loyal military member and a highly trained martial artist, weapons expert, firearm tactician, teacher and, finally, a soft-spoken and caring individual. However, words are just that: words. To truly understand Tu’s mindset, physical abilities and prowess, as well as why his training company, Ronin Tactics, is so well-regarded, American Survival Guide caught up with this ever-active retired Special Forces operator and explored what made him what he is today, including the arduous, sometimes dangerous, but truly fulfilling, path he took to get here.

American Survival Guide: What was your childhood like as you were growing up, and was your life then instrumental in creating the man you are today?

Tu Lam: Unfortunately, growing up the in 1980s as an Asian American (South Vietnamese) during the post-Vietnam War years near the biggest Army base in the United States (Fort Bragg, North Carolina) was not so easy. I was called more racist names than I care to recall. I was bullied and beaten daily for looking different. Usually, these racist child acts were supported by their racist adult parents.

My family didn’t come from money, and we didn’t have much. My stepfather raised us with a very strict military upbringing. Higher education was a requirement, and we dedicated many hours to our academics. In public school, we had a dress code—enforced by my stepfather.

My stepfather had a welding business that was started by my step-grandfather after he returned home from the Korean War. My stepfather engineered and manufactured Special Operations assault ladders, along with many other requirements from the military’s more specialized units.

Growing up, our days were long, with no days off. We went to school on school days and worked throughout the weekends. During the summer breaks, we would work seven days a week. If we were not working at the welding shop, we were working at home. Our days usually started at 6:00 a.m. with The Ballad of the Green Berets (the Special Forces song). My stepfather was a former Army drill sergeant, so physical training was developed early in our childhood.

Growing up in a military household, we were trained on weapons. I started training in hand- to-hand, combat blade tactics and firearms at age 11. Now, as an adult and looking back on my childhood, I realize my strict upbringing gave me the structure I needed in my life to accomplish the things that are important to me, such as finishing college while fighting wars. My physical discipline as a child had transferred to my discipline to finish some of the military’s most demanding training and Special Operations assignments. The bullying and racism I endured as a child gave me strength to not allow such a hateful mind but to instead show compassion to others. At the time, I could not see the lesson, but I do now. The struggles I endured as a child have given me the strength I needed to become the person I seek to be.

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April 2020