Dear Attitude,
I’ve noticed that I’ve been drinking too much and would like to make the most of Dry January and cut down. I had a blackout earlier this year which I understand to be a sign of having a drink problem. I often lose keys, phones and wallets, so I really need to try and do something. Unfortunately, all my friends are big drinkers and going to bars and clubs is a big thing for them. I’ve tried to cut down before and they have ranted and raved at me and told me I’m being boring. I want to tell them that I think I have a problem but they won’t take it seriously. I’m spending more time with a friend who does get it and is supportive but I don’t want to lose this group of friends just because I’m cutting down on my drinking. It’s getting in the way of making serious change though. What should I do? Should I just carry on drinking and partying? Tiago, Glasgow