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BEING A BOTTOM does not mean bottom of the pile

MANY MEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WILL HAVE BEEN ASKED: WHO’S THE MAN AND WHO’S THE WOMAN? DESPITE ALL THE STRIDES FORWARD IN THE GAY COMMUNITY, BEING PASSIVE IN THE BEDROOM IS STILL LINKED TO FEMININITY — AS DOM TOP KNOWS WELL

Hello there, my name is Dom Top. I am a comedian and, more importantly, a bottom. Ironic, eh? You might now be wondering why I’d give myself this moniker. Well, aside from it being kind of a “LOL” name, I also wanted to challenge people’s ideas of masculinity, specifically why the role of “Total Top” is considered manlier by so many gay men.

Physically, I don’t fit the traditional idea of a masculine, powerful male; I am small in frame and light in weight. I have a beard but not a ton of body hair, slim arms but a sizeable rump. I have a strong London accent, but a soft tone. However, I consider myself to be powerful, strong and authoritative, so I don’t fit the wilting, weak popular image of the “pussyboy” passive that many men ask me to be as I bottom for them.

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