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OLIVER AND ME

When author and photographer Bill Hayes moved to New York in 2009 it was the start of a love affair – not just with the city but also with the revered writer and neurologist Oliver Sacks. Here Bill tells us how that fateful move led him into the arms of an extraordinary man…

Losing my partner Steve, who I’d been with for 17 years, in 2006 was devastating. He died suddenly of a heart attack and it took me three years to get grounded again; to get my life back together enough to realise I needed to start over; to start fresh. I’d grown up in a small town in Washington state and had moved to San Francisco in the mid-80s, but I’d always wanted to live in New York City and I’d visited many times over the years. I loved it and decided ‘It’s now or never’, so in 2009 – at age 48 – I made the move.

New York itself was everything I hoped it would be. It’s much bigger than San Francisco and much more compressed, dense and alive. As an insomniac there’s no place more alive at night than New York City. Plus, it was a great adventure to start a new life in a city that had so much to explore.

My new book Insomniac City is as much about that as it is about my relationship with Oliver Sacks. In fact, I had a contract to write a book about New York and also one on the history of exercise, and I was working on the former when Oliver got sick and I put writing aside. After he passed away I re-read the journal he had urged me to start shortly after I’d moved to Manhattan. It was a journal that had started with just notes on scraps of paper but had grown to about 700 pages, and it was filled with stories not just about Oliver and me, but also stories about New York. I realised I could chronicle my relationship with him through these journal passages as well as stories about people I’d encountered.

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