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Coming out? For who?

by Rebecca Kelly

There is a sense that if you’re not 100 percent sure of yourself right away, you’re either faking it or you do in fact have it all figured out but you’re ashamed of the conclusion you’ve come to.

Although both are very possible, why is it that we as queer people are made to feel this way? Who are we really coming out for?

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