It’s not until they are older that kids begin to compare their physicality with that of other people. Puberty is a challenge emotionally, mentally and physically, not least because our outward appearance is what people notice first. By the time they hit their teens, this self-conscious awareness of image extends to how they dress, what phone they have and even the friends they socialise with. When you factor in a burgeoning sexuality and the gay feelings that begin to stir inside, it’s no wonder that many young gay men go on to have a complicated relationship with their body. The desire we feel towards men’s bodies goes against what society tells us is appropriate.
For trans kids, their feelings are exasperated by a body that begins to develop in a way contrary to the gender they identify with — and is why trans kids need support and protection. (Thank you Don Cheadle for your beautiful gesture on Saturday Night Live in February, and Harry Brewis, aka Hbomberguy, who raised more than $340,000 (£263k) for trans children’s charity Mermaids.)