Success Stories: Peace in the Passenger Seat

Jaime Hrobar describes her son’s behavioral progress. Have a success story you want to share? Click here.

Recently, I walked my son, Jim, out to the bus, which was waiting at the end of our driveway. He is nonverbal and has severe autism. He had his iPad in hand, listening to Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer on a sunny April morning.

I greeted the bus driver and Jim’s aide, whose sneakers always superbly match the color of her outfit. This is impressive because I’m usually in my pajamas and lucky to have shoes on.

After complimenting her on her beautiful choice of mulberry that morning, I handed her Jim’s backpack, lunch bag, and suitcase as he skipped up the bus stairs and took his seat. My neighbors must wonder if he’s going on vacation or moving out.

Jim is very particular about seating assignments— not anyone else’s, just his. If you’re in his seat, whether on the bus or at the kitchen table, be prepared for this twenty-year-old, one-hundred-and-eighty-pound young man to sit on your lap. You’re in his spot.