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Picture the scene – you’re all out celebrating a family birthday in a restaurant when a waiter brings out a dessert topped with sparklers. The trouble is, it’s not for your table.

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Authenticity might be the key to charm, but what is it really, how can you get it and how do you use it once you’ve found it? Stephen Joseph, author of Authentic, shares his advice on finding and using authenticity in your life
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