Linn and Kat Cox
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First let me introduce myself. I’m Kat and my other half is Linn Cox who almost 10 years ago told me a massive secret - THAT SHE LIKED TO DRESS AS A GIRL!! I can say that I was slightly heartbroken by this as I thought that it had come about because of something that I had done wrong in our relationship - that I wasn’t being the best girlfriend that I could be - that I was boring to my boyfriend – to the point that he had to go and find something else to excite him. How naïve I was to think that this had something to do with me. But after telling me this, nothing seemed to happen. So our relationship continued happily for another few years until I noticed that for maybe a year or so, we would argue over the most random things, and that we were getting very frustrated with each other. So I confronted him one night after a particularly bad argument and he spilled his guts and said that he can no longer hide that side of him and that he needed to do something about it.