Bring to mind someone you love, maybe a sibling or a parent, or a partner or your best friend and now ask yourself: do I always like this person? Commonly we don’t always like the people we love, because we don’t have to like them to love them. And then consider how you are with this person, even when you’re not feeling all the love for them. Are you still thoughtful, kind, generous or respectful — as well as you can be I imagine. That’s because generally we do a good job of showing acts of love to the people we love, even if we don’t always like them. But what about if we turn this around and back at the relationship you have with yourself. I call this your ‘selfationship’ — your relationship with self.
“Lydia I know that I need to love myself more, but I don’t know how!” I’ve heard this so many times from clients and those who take my courses or attend my events. Having more self-love is a common desire and yet so many of us feel stuck with it.
I think my selfationship started to break down at around the age of 12 and it wasn’t until I was in my late twenties that I realised I needed to love myself more. I had hit a crossroads with no idea of which way to turn except for the nagging feeling that I needed to turn towards myself. I hated myself and had no idea how I would ever be able to accept who I was. I was out of control around alcohol and sugar and I desperately needed to find a way to change how I was abusing myself.
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