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It’s been a hell of a few years, huh? Every time you open a newspaper these days there’s death, destruction and Donald Trump being, well, just awful. There’s little in terms of good news to raise our spirits.

But there’s one story that came to light in 2014, the kind of story we seldom hear these days – one of such human decency and compassion – that even on the darkest of days, it can lift our spirits and shine a light on the fact that there is some selfless good in the world.

It was 14 January, 2008, when Jonny Benjamin and Neil Laybourn met for the first time on Waterloo Bridge. Jonny had developed depression at the age of 16, was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder – a combination of schizophrenia and bipolar disorder – in his early 20s. He ran away from hospital that day with the intention of taking his own life by jumping off a bridge.

Neil played the role of the good Samaritan during that fateful encounter, successfully talking Jonny to safety with the promise that things would get better – but they were separated when the police intervened and took Jonny away to be sectioned.

Jonny never forgot Neil and the role he’d played in saving his life. Six years later – in January 2014 – Jonny launched a social media campaigned called #FindMike with charity Rethink Mental Illness to try and locate Neil, while also raising awareness of mental health and suicide; a campaign which captured the hearts of hundreds of millions around the world and garnered the support of Stephen Fry, Boy George and the then-Prime Minister David Cameron.

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