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“I am not my emotions”

Our feelings can guide us, and fill our lives with warmth and colour – yet some negative emotions bring little else but pain. Here, three writers search for the meaning of – and the antidote to – envy, guilt and resentment



Danielle Woodward takes a reality check with the green-eyed monster

While visiting friends recently, I had a serious case of house envy. On my tour around their new loft extension, an adults-only retreat from their children’s chaos, I sighed as my feet sank into the luxurious carpet and I took in the sleek, relaxing decor.

‘What do you think?’ my friend asked, beaming joyfully at the renovation.

‘It’s lovely,’ I replied through gritted teeth, trying to ignore the sinking feeling in my stomach and the urge to scream, ‘It’s not fair – I want this, too!’

‘The tendency to feel a pang of envy at another’s good fortune is universal,’ says psychotherapist Patricia Polledri, author of Envy In Everyday Life (Clink Street Publishing, £9.99). ‘And it is so unpleasant and negative that we would rather not think about it.’

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