When my girlfriend thrashed me at pool recently in a lesbian bar, she was gobsmacked to be reprimanded by a bystander.
There were two women near the bar and as we walked by, one with a leather waistcoat and buzz-cut asked my girlfriend who had won at pool. When she told the truth, possibly a little gloating, probably feeling proud, she was floored by the response: “You should have let the lady win.”