orgasmic life
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Suspension of doubt, even for a few moments, has had a transformational effect on my life. What do I mean by doubt? You know, the voice in your head that says you’re not good enough; you’re not attractive enough; you don’t deserve what you desire. Mine has been rattling on at me unabated for years, but now I’m learning to be a little kinder when speaking to myself. I don’t think I’ll ever completely rid myself of this critical voice, but I can suspend it. And, if I’m quick, I can do something pretty radical in those moments when doubt is banished.