I think it’s fair to say I’ve been on a big journey of selfdiscovery these past three and a half years. As well as discovering my true gender identity I’ve discovered, and still continue to discover a lot about my kinkier side.
My love-life has never been that vanilla. Since I’ve been sexually aware I’ve indulged in the likes of soft bondage and had a big love of sploshing. If you’re wondering what that is, I believe Nina is covering it in her World Of Kink column next issue. In fact, I first realised I had gender dysphoria when I wrote Splosh Erotica as creative writing therapy to help me manage my anxiety and depression and found myself wanting to dress up like one of my female characters. Since then I’ve been a lot more explorative, discovering a love, not just for dressing up, but for lots of other new kinks I never explored before, and as a result, started to regularly attend some of my local fetish nights in Brighton.