Marriage & Family

From The Team

Welcome, dear reader, to our October issue of GCN, or, as we joyfully refer to it – the Wedding Issue!

NXF: Full and Equal Rights

40 years ago, when the National Gay Federation (NGF –

Outitude – Expanding Lesbian Stories

The most important thing we have learnt to date from our journey with our documentary Outitude is how important it is for lesbians to see themselves reflected on screen. If we don’t see ourselves, we become invisible in the recording of the history of our community

Abolish Direct Provision

A person having no choice but to leave their country because of persecution is nothing I will ever know. These are the real stories we hear from people who have had no choice but to flee their countries, flee without their families and flee the lives they have made

First Time Buyers

Aft er a couple makes the big decision to spend the rest of their lives together, one of the next questions is - where will the rest of their lives take place? Ronan Crinion of MoveHome Estate Agents gives some top tips for fi rst time buyers

Dream Location

Looking for the ideal venue for your wedding, or even a welcome pre- or postwedding break? Peter Dunne suggests to look no further than Farnham Estate Spa and Golf Resort for a touch of elegance mixed with pure relaxation

Culture Club Conor Behan

Normani may be starting out as a solo artist but the release of her single ‘Motivation’ felt like a nod to the best kind of pop throwback

Team Sports

In advance of his band’ visit to Ireland for what promises to be an epic gig, Rebecca Kelly hopped on the phone to Australia and chatted with Tim Nelson of Cub Sport to discuss music, marriage and queerness

Conversations In Monochrome

From the embrace that empowered the marriage equality referendum in Ireland to the kiss that made Northern Ireland question itself, Joe Caslin is renowned for invigorating social commentary and astounding art works.

The Story Of Us

Making a marriage work takes work. A relationship is also a partnership - the beginning of thinking of yourselves as members of a team, not just separate individuals. Two long-term married couples reveal to Peter Dunne that, like anything else, the more you put into a marriage, the more you get back. Marlon and John’ s photo by Una Williams, Helen and Philippa’ s provided by the couple

Positive Voices

Daniel Töth, the proudly self-titled Queen of HIV, talks here about the impact of the stigma surrounding HIV, the need for greater public awareness of the U=U message and the trauma carried by a community who for so long lived in the shadow of HIV and AIDS. Portrait by Hazel Coonagh

Closest To Fine

Ahead of their upcoming appearance at Sligo Live, Emily Saliers of the legendary musical duo Indigo Girls shared with Katie Donohoe her journey with spirituality, activism as an extension of being in a community and how it felt being open about her sexuality during a time that was far less welcoming

Shirley’s Burn Book

Debbie O’Grady would pass a gallstone before she’d pass a spelling test

Will You Marry Me?

Nowadays, with marriage proposals consisting of full musical production numbers going viral on the internet, there can be an added pressure on people planning to pop the question.

Days of Our Lives

Planning an important life event, such as a Wedding Ceremony, a Wedding Blessing, Vow Renewals, Naming Ceremony (to welcome your new arrival) or a Celebration of Life Ceremony (Funeral) to celebrate the life of a loved one, requires dedicated professionals who understand your needs

Wedding Bells Becky & Aileen

For some, it’ the food, for the There are even speeches. But whatever your favourite bit, most of us love a good wedding. Sarah McKenna Barry speaks to four amazing couples who recently tied the knot

Anthony & Barry

When Anthony Kinahan and Barry Gardiner exchanged vows at the

The 11th Dive

Taking an upsetting event and turning it into an example of going the extra mile to make sure love is never lost, Emerson Bruns and Nik Quaife shared with Sarah McKenna Barry the inspiration for their wedding theme - ‘The 11th Dive’ Photo by Allen Kiely

The North? It's Complicated...

In 2005, the Belfast-based writer and queer activist Shannon Sickels made history alongside her partner, Grainne Close, as the first public UK civil partnership. All these years later in 2018, Shannon and Grainne are still battling for equal rights and equal marriage. A momentous deadline looms for Northern Ireland, a date which could have a massive impact on the lives of its LGBT+ community for years to come. The author explains. Illustrations by SOAK

Win a luxury break for two in the beautiful Clayton Hotel

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Separately Together

With the huge amounts of LGBT+ couples taking their vows in the wake of the marriage referendum, Aoife Read asks - what does a valid long-term relationship look like? What should the sum of all of its parts equate to? What about those couples who have no interest in marriage?

Here to Listen

The fine folk at the recently launched Outcomers Drogheda have

Give Winter The Boot

Dublin Devils FC are looking for new players to join