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Jane
I THINK I MIGHT BE BISEXUAL

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Dear Jane,
I am currently in a relationship with a man but I picked up DIVA at a friend’s house and it really chimed with things I’ve been feeling lately about women. It seems a bit out of the blue in a way, after all I’m in my late 50s and the man I’m with is lovely. We have a good sex life – even after the menopause – and I love him very much. I borrowed the copy of DIVA and I hid it under our mattress and then had a light-bulb moment: why hide it? Could it mean something? I’ve often had strong feelings for women as well as men but just never done anything about it other than start intense friendships which often fizzle out after a while. I’m not sure what to do next. I don’t want to leave my partner but I think I want to meet other bi women and then see what happens. Can you help?