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Dear Ali,
What is the best way to communicate that you found something hurtful , without your partner feeling criticised? I know the theory is “I statements” and to speak from a position of non-confrontation. But my experience has often been that the focus ends up being about how much the expression of my hurt was hurtful . I also wondered about “Apology Languages” and identifying each person’s different needs around owning/apologising.
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