Q After 18 years as a single parent, I had almost convinced myself that I did not need anyone additional in my life. But with both my children now in their 20s and living independently, recently, close friends – who all have partners – have suggested I join a dating site. I have a clear idea of the kind of partner I would hope to find, but little confidence that my search will be successful. Should I be brave enough to at least give it a try – or resign myself to a life of bespoke solitude?
I love the way you write: your personality comes across even in this short letter, and I encourage you to bring that into your dating life. Online dating is an efficient way to meet people and, even pre-pandemic, 39 per cent of couples in the UK met virtually, compared to 20 per cent meeting through friends.