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I am worried about my colleague. He’s been turning up late to work, sometimes drunk, and I’ve had to cover for him. I’ve also noticed he’s not his usual self when he’s sober and doesn’t socialise any more.
Sam, Cambridge
It sounds as if you’re right to be worried. Depending on what you do for a living, turning up drunk could have serious consequences, so he needs to address this as soon as possible.
First, have you tried to talk to him directly? It would be a good idea to bring it up in a calm and considerate way, picking a suitable time and place to start conversation. Sometimes simply making a cuppa and having a friendly chat can help.