My motto in life is “Suck the dick,” by which I mean, “Go for it.” I mean that figuratively. Unless you wanna suck a dick – if that’s what you’re going for, well, then I mean it literally.
I once got advice from a professional cheesemaker for someone who wanted to make cheese out of human breast milk. I’ve given advice to people who wanted to be eaten alive and to people who wanted to be castrated and to people who wanted to have “SEX SLAVE” tattooed on their foreheads. The situations are sometimes unique, and sometimes extreme, but the desire is always the same – to be seen, to be known, to be wanted by someone who wants what you do and what you are.