Supporting Pragmatic Language

Supporting social language helps with relationships, school, and life.

By Nikki McRory, MA CCC-SLP, BCBA, CAS

Pragmatic language is how we choose our words, interpret meaning, and navigate conversations in various settings. For many children, these skills develop naturally through observation and interaction.

Yet, for children with autism, social language can be a significant challenge.

Understanding and supporting this area is crucial not only for communication but for helping children form relationships, succeed in school, and navigate everyday life.

What is pragmatic language, how does it impact children with autism, and what practical strategies can parents use to support their child’s development? use cues like pauses or body language to know when it’s okay to talk.

• Staying on topic: being able to follow the flow of a conversation, add relevant comments, and change the subject in a way that makes sense.

• Understanding non-literal language: comprehending jokes, sarcasm, or phrases like “break a leg” that don’t mean exactly what they say to help them fit in socially.

• Using and reading body language: understanding facial expressions, tone of voice, and gestures.

• Changing how they speak based on the listener: using a different tone with a teacher than with a sibling.

What is pragmatic language?

Pragmatic language is how we use language in everyday social situations. Social language is knowing what, when, and how to say something in a certain situation.

These skills are important for home and school interactions, including making friends and working in groups.