MATT CHUDLEIGH, 36, FINANCIAL SYSTEMS CONSULTANT, ALBERTA, CANADA
What was my first gay bar experience like? Before I get to that , I owe you a bit of context. I’m obviously not the first person to grow up confused about his sexuality, but you need to know what I was thinking in the run-up to that nerve-wracking night out to understand how much it meant to me.
THEN: Matt, back in the day when being gay was a mystery NOW: Matt still visits his first gay bar