INSTA BICON RUBY RARE IS HERE TO GIVE YOU THE SEX EDUCATION YOU DESERVE WORDS ROXY

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PHOTO SOPHIE CUNNINGHAM

Ruby Rare is lying facedown on her bed, industrial-sized vibrator and both bum cheeks cheerfully exposed. She wears purple lacy pants and an oversized t-shirt brandishing the slogan, “MAS-SIVE FUCKING SLUT”. Next she is in close-up, in a series of shots that spotlight her curves and rolls. Unwaxed pubic hairs spread nonchalantly, naturally, across her lower abdomen. The caption reads, “My beautiful bikini body”. Now Ruby is an illustrated self-portrait, hairy-legged, gaping-mouthed, nude. Beams of light radiate from her genitals. She stares at them, entranced. “Ever get so overwhelmed by the beauty of your own vulva you don’t know what to do?”

If you’re in dire need of an antidote to society’s tedious, toxic, patriarchal BS, then I highly recommend a quick scroll through sex educator and “queer, non-monogamous jelly enthusiast” Ruby Rare’s Instagram (@rubyrare). In one recent post, she’s hanging out in bed, in pants, on-brand, nuzzling a copy of her gorgeous new book, Sex Ed: A Guide For Adults. Illustrated by Sofie Birkin, it’s packed with useful info on stuff we really should know more about, from agency and anatomy to consent and cunnilingus. There’s even a page for you to write a love letter to your bits.