You are currently viewing the United Kingdom version of the site.
Would you like to switch to your local site?
6 MIN READ TIME

MINDFUL WELLNESS

Psychologies Wellness Director – mindfulness guru and yoga teacher Ali Roff Farrar – shares expert advice and inspiring ideas to increase your holistic wellbeing

Make Christmas mindful

Muse Frankincense incense, £12, museincense.com

Christmas can be a joyful time but, for some of us, a heaving to-do list can turn the festive season into the stressful season! If you enjoyed our 12 Days of Christmas Calm feature on page 30, here are a few extra mindfulness-based tools to help you survive the season…

Be kind to yourself. Remember, you’re allowed to relax and enjoy it all, too. If you’re someone who spends a lot of time making sure everyone else is having a magical time, now’s the time to extend the same wishes towards yourself. Pull on a cosy jumper, light some Christmas-scented incense, and settle down in front of your favourite festive film

Notice the ‘glimmers’. If you find yourself experiencing panic ‘triggers’ around Christmas expectations, for example not having enough time or money to buy presents, make an effort to notice the little moments of cheer or wonder; your favourite festive song on the radio, or some beautiful Christmas lights. Embrace the positives to find balance with the negatives, and help regulate the nervous system.

Try ‘pacing’. Take breaks from the Christmas to-do list before you need them, to prevent burnout.

* NICOLIEN C. DE CLERCQ, MYRTHE N. FRISSEN, EVGENI LEVIN, MARK DAVIDS, JORN HARTMAN, ANDREI PRODAN, HILDE HERREMA, ALBERT K. GROEN, JOHANNES A. ROMIJN, MAX NIEUWDORP, ‘THE EFFECT OF HAVING CHRISTMAS DINNER WITH IN-LAWS ON GUT MICROBIOTA COMPOSITION’, HUMAN MICROBIOME JOURNAL, VOLUME 13, 2019

Make Christmas mindful

Christmas can be a joyful time but, for some of us, a heaving to-do list can turn the festive season into the stressful season! If you enjoyed our 12 Days of Christmas Calm feature on page 30, here are a few extra mindfulness-based tools to help you survive the season…

Unlock this article and much more with
You can enjoy:
Enjoy this edition in full
Instant access to 600+ titles
Thousands of back issues
No contract or commitment
Try for 99p
SUBSCRIBE NOW
30 day trial, then just £9.99 / month. Cancel anytime. New subscribers only.


Learn more
Pocketmags Plus
Pocketmags Plus

This article is from...


View Issues
Psychologies
Xmas-23
VIEW IN STORE

Other Articles in this Issue


EDITORIAL
Welcome…
As the old song goes, ’It’s beginning
Psychologies
The advice starts RIGHT HERE!
DR AUDREY TANG ‘Christmas rituals give us a
HAVE A MEANINGFUL Christmas
Stay true to your values, embrace the perfectly imperfect, and let go of comparison, for a festive season that will fill up your cup with joy, writes Caroline Butterwick
Understanding what matters to you at Christmas
psychologies DOSSIER With you in mind Getting to
Perfectionism and comparison culture
psychologies DOSSIER With you in mind So, you’ve
Have a mindful Christmas
Working out your values and doing your best
WHAT GIFT DO YOU MOST NEED THIS CHRISTMAS?
To reconnect with what really matters this Christmas and beyond, take our test to find the reminder you need most this festive season
What do you need to remind yourself this Christmas?
IF YOU SCORED MAINLY ♥ I am okay
Join Ollie’s army
Ever wanted to make adifference and train to become a coach? With the Ollie School, you could be changing lives before you know it
Soul
Discover ways to make your soul sing… with creativity, nature, finding your purpose in life and at work, travel and spirituality
Regulars
In the mood
Thought-provoking culture, insightful science and inspirational snippets to bring you up to date on all things uplifting, hopeful and happy-making
Viewpoint
Send your letters of gratitude and tell us what you loved reading in the magazine to letters@psychologies.co.uk
“Imposter syndrome is super healthy
Television and radio presenter Claudia Winkleman talks to Psychologies about taking wellness seriously in her 50s, the power of a good nap, and why she’ll never wear a sports bra
Filled with love
LIFE AS I KNOW IT
Mind
Mind
us comfort and joy Inspiration to boost your happiness and confidence, plus simple steps to overcome anxiety and stress Inspiration to boost your happiness and confidence, plus simple steps to overcome anxiety and stress
WHY NOSTALGIA GIVES US comfort and joy
Bridging a connection to our past and to our people, there’s good reason to treasure our traditions, discovers Kellie Gillespie-Wright
Choose life
Coaching in action
12 days of Christmas calm
Carve out some little pockets of peace amidst the festive fun and frolics, with Joanne Mallon’s soothing rituals to help you re-centre and rise above stress
The light in the dark
Follow the rhythm of nature in this fallow period, with writing prompts to help you rest and rejuvenate, says Jackee Holder
Heart
Heart
How to connect more meaningfully and enjoy loving relationships with our partners, children, parents and friends
Home comfort
Coming up for air
Embracing Christmas 2.0
What do you do when life happens, and your festive celebrations no longer fit the mould? Greta Solomon shares how to find light after loss
A new kind of Christmas
If ‘Embracing Christmas 2.0’ has struck a chord with you, discover how author Veronica Henry created her own new-look Christmas…
Q & A
Our new agony aunt, Dr Martha, offers a different perspective on your problems 
CONFLICT
Tackling C hristmas
Pass the mistletoe!
The smell of cinnamon, tinsel, and panic is in
Body
Body
Improve your physical wellbeing with gentle activity, better sleep, optimum nutrition and natural beauty
EXCUSES, EXCUSES
Bit of a stretch
Winter Walks
Savour this season of solitude and stillness, and take a mindful moment, says Yasmina Floyer
Soul
’Twas the night before Christmas…
Whether or not you choose to buy into the Santa myth, we can all believe in the positive messaging the man in red has come to represent, discovers Yasmina Floyer
SOMEWHERE IN MY MEMORY…
In this month’s column, musician James Sills explores the songs we sing at Christmas, and how they help us to connect with our past and present
The words
Book of the month
How to be happier
Emma Hepburn, aka The Psychology Mum, shares how to bring more bliss into your life
Chat
X
Pocketmags Support