It’s officially the month of love! Supermarket shelves are stacked with wine, flowers and chocolates, and we’re all being spammed with messages that your love and sex life are incomplete without finding “the one”. Well, dear reader, I’m here to reassure you that you are the only one you need – whether you’re part of the broken hearts club, happily riding solo or in a long-distance relationship. I spoke to four sex educators to find out how we can set the mood for some mind-blowing self-pleasure and celebrate the month of love with some glorious self-love. You’re welcome.