RESPECTED EDUCATOR DR. MALCOLM SHARES HIS ADVICE FOR DE-ESCALATING DIFFICULT BEHAVIORS AMONG CHILDREN ON THE AUTISM SPECTRUM.

By Dr. Ronald I. MALCOLM, EDd

Every parent with a child on the spectrum has had to deal with behaviors in various forms. Such behaviors differ as no two children with autism are the same. It is important that, as a parent, you become aware of strategies you can use to help your child de-escalate. Here are 10 suggestions for parents as they navigate the world of difficult behaviors.

1. Seek the advice of professionals and model appropriately

Many parents become stressed out at the very thought of managing the behaviors of their children with autism. They may even be afraid to take their children with autism out in public for fear of being embarrassed due to their behaviors in stores, restaurants, or parks.

As a result of this anxiety, they may react harshly to their child’s behaviors without even realizing they are “modeling’’ inappropriate reactions.

As a parent, it is important to keep in mind that you will always be your child’s first teacher. Ensure you model appropriate behavior for them when dealing with stress.

Sometimes, it is good to have a fresh set of eyes look at the behaviors of your child with autism. Parents can seek out the advice of a Board Certified Behavior Analysis (BCBA), counselor, family doctor (specializing in autism), or mental health professional. They can offer additional “tools” to assist with managing difficult behaviors and/or de-escalating your child.