Ask Ali
SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO?
DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WE CAN HELP WITH?
Email dearali@ diva-magazine.com
Dear Ali,
How do I know when to give up on a relationship or to fight for it ? I feel like most pe ople raised as women are socialised to do all or most of the emotional work in relationships. I certainly have been. Then our popular culture tells us it ’s romantic to fight to save a relationship. Is it ever right to ask someone who wants to go to stay?!
Signed, X
Dear X,
Thank you for reaching out. Let’s explore ways of finding clarity on whether you should stay or go.