Don’t be brave
Is bravery the key to better riding, or are there other qualities we should value more? Daisy Smith explains why putting your brave pants back in the drawer could help your state of mind
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The phrase ‘putting on your brave pants’ has a nice ring to it, particularly pre-cross-country when the nerves might get the better of you. However, if you’re truly prepared and well-practised, are they really needed?
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Daisy Smith is a confidence coach, presenter and writer. She writes award-winning blog How Very Horsey, runs regular rider confidence courses and is an ambassador for Intelligent Horsemanship.
Who hasn’t heard a horsey friend say they just need to put on their brave pants? We’re so often told that bravery is what makes a great rider, yet what comes to mind when conjuring up images of bravery?
Soldiers, firefighters, lion tamers, even – not a rider and their horse producing a flowing test or clear showjumping round in harmony. Bravery’s defined as being ready to face and endure danger or pain, which certainly doesn’t align with most riders’ goal of having fun with their horse.