TIP
“Pursue your fantasies in ways that feel emotionally and physically risk aware and as safe as possible for you and your partner. Take a curious journey into what you’d like to experience, what you want the other person to enjoy, and what would be turn offs. Avoid assumptions and judgement. If someone doesn’t understand why you’re into indulge in your fantasy, something, they aren’t obligated to but if they are open and feel safe listening, you can explain your fantasy as a story instead of just one activity and maybe you’ll find other erotic ways to connect with each other.”