ILLUSTRATION STANLEY HOOPER
CRITICISING A COUPLE
I never warmed to my friend’s partner, who was boring and a bit of a snob, but she seemed happy with him, so I always made an effort. Then they split up and, over a coffee one day, I told her the truth – that I never liked him. She seemed surprised, but not upset. Now they’re back together. How do I handle this – now and going forward?