I suppose by the age of 40+ people have quite a potted history in their past relationships and love affairs. I am 42 and I am now dating a man of 25. We’ve been together nearly seven months and it’s going well. I find that guys in their twenties don’t carry around personal life stories of their past because they are still young and maybe haven’t experienced that much on the love-and-loss side of things.
Of course, in my twenties I had my break-ups but the relationships hadn’t been overly profound or long-lasting and so were easy to get over. I find that younger guys also have a natural optimism concerning love: they expect to meet the one, settle down and enjoy life with a partner.
I had the same optimism in my twenties and love happened to me when I was 24 after what I thought was a random one-night-stand with a 40-something guy called Michael.