“Growing up, I never saw anyone like me on TV/in films/in my community”. How many times have you said or heard those words? I have, hundreds of times. We’re lucky that in the UK, LGBTQI people are relatively visible in the public sphere. It’s not unusual to see the odd same-sex couple holding hands while walking down the street in our cities and, even the most heteronormative of households recognise and celebrate names like Stephen Fry, Nicola Adams and Clare Balding. Yet, even in the UK, where significant progress has been made and which scores highly on IGLA-Europe’s Rainbow Europe Index (ilga-europe.org/rainboweurope), we still face homo-, bi- and transphobia; we still suffer from higher levels of mental health issues than the general population; and heterosexuality is still very much the default setting.